February is here with all the pink and red hearts in store windows. Walgreens has an entire aisle devoted to cards and chocolates and teddy bears. What will you give your partner this Valentine’s Day? Some special time together? Dinner out and flowers? What if you also offered them a generous gift that is completely free, deeply transformative, and only requires you to Stop doing something? Sound good? I invite you to give up needing to be right. ‘I don’t do that,’ you may sa